The Perfect Co-Parent? Let’s Be Real.
If your feed makes co-parenting look effortless, your feed is lying. In this episode, we unpack the “perfect co-parent” myth and replace it with qualities that actually move the family forward: patience, communication, flexibility, consideration, and shared goals. We also talk about how social media shapes unrealistic expectations—and why real life requires grace, boundaries, and grown conversation.
What “Works” Beats What Looks Perfect
Patience > pressure. Slow down before you react; respond like a teammate, not an opponent.
Clear communication. Make the ask, confirm the plan, and name the help you need.
Flexible structure. Seasons change—so should your custody rhythms and house rules.
The Confessional: “I’m the Strict Parent, They’re the Fun One.”
You’re not doing it wrong. Structure often feels thankless in the moment—and essential long-term. Try aligning one or two shared standards across homes (room cleanup, bedtime, school follow-through), then allow each house to keep its vibe without weaponizing differences. And remember: your kid’s excitement to see the other parent is not a review of your worth.
3 Takeaways to Try
Swap the myth for metrics: Did we communicate? Did we keep the kid’s needs first?
One shared standard: Pick a single behavior both homes will reinforce.
De-trigger your scroll: Mute accounts that make you compare your co-parenting to fiction.
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